Learning to Ask
At a very young age, we go to school and have the opportunity to ask the teachers any question we might have about their class. When you’re younger, you don’t care — you’ll shoot up your hand and ask anything. ‘Why is the sky not purple?’ ‘What’s inside a ballon?’ ‘What’s a huckleberry?’
But somewhere along the way, most of us stop asking. Whether it’s not wanting to be embarrassed or bullied or not wanting to be labeled as a nerd, we stop asking and begin to fear asking.
If you think about It, most schools are designed for answers, not questions, unfortunately.
After school, most of us take this fear into our adulthood. We fear standing out, yet desperately want to. We fear asking, but can’t think of anything else. We fear trying, because what if we fail?
But what has anyone gotten from not trying? Nada. Zip. Zilch. Nothing.
Questions are our North Star towards a meaningful life. Questioners rule the world. Become someone who asks great questions, and you’ll become someone who reaches mastery and creates an extraordinary life for themselves.
Life isn’t a solo adventure and won’t always be butterflies and apple pies. That’s why questions and asking are vitally important. When you learn how to ask for It — whatever It is — you take control of your life into your own hands.
Life Principle #19: ASK
You probably have something that comes to mind that you’ve been wanting to ask someone about, but haven’t quite got the nerve yet.
Do It right now. Don’t let fear win again.
Let me ask you this, what do you get when you decide not to ask? What do you get when you let fear win?
The exact same thing you’ve got now — nothing. A bag of pennies and a fountain full of dreams. The worst they can do is ignore you or say no.
A ‘no’ is always better than a ‘what if’.
And if they do say no, GREAT! You’re building your asking muscle. But if they say yes, that changes everything doesn’t It? It puts the power of change into your hands.
Making asking a daily practice in your life.
Practice asking for what you want. Ask for help. Ask questions. Ask for career advice. Ask someone out on a date. Ask for a raise. Ask for knowledge. Ask for a break. Ask for directions. Be curious. Like the old phrase goes, Ask and you’ll receive.
You never know until you ask.
Stay BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner
“Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.” — Og Mandino
“The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge.” — Thomas Berger
“You create your opportunities by asking for them.” — Shakti Gawain
“No one is dumb who is curious. The people who don’t ask questions remain clueless throughout their lives.” — Neil deGrasse Tyson