“What I’ve learned in these 11 years is you just got to stay focused and believe in yourself and trust your own ability and judgment.”Mark Cuban
Remove The Unessential to Make Space for Essential
I’m not surprised that a lot of us (including myself) struggle with good posture. Making sure my head stays straight and vertical is something I have to remind myself every day to work at. We sit and lean over books in school and for leisure. We hunch over screens as we work. Almost everything we do is forward—we walk, drive, watch tv, eat, talk, play, and work looking forward. No wonder we look like shriveled ogres when we are older! Don’t get me wrong, I’m grateful for it. I don’t know how I’d feel about having eyes on the back of my head where at any moment I could look down as see my entire ✨ss.
Looking forward is almost poetic, in a way. It’s like our bodies were made to focus. Sure we rub our belly and pat our head, but in many ways, we are one-task minded. Focus is a currency.
Of course, there are a countless number of things trying to take our attention and distract us from our intentions.
I’ll be working on one thing, editing a podcast episode or working a writing idea and suddenly 2 million distractions pop into my head. Other projects I need to work on. Another thing I should be doing. Social media rabbit holes to fall into. And suddenly I’ve sent an hour not working on what I was trying to work on.
There’s always going to be something else you could be doing instead of the current work you’re pursuing.
There’s always going to be:
- More books to read
- More ideas to create
- More projects to try
- More shows to watch
- More things to learn before you are “ready”
But none of those new and shiny things are more important than the things you have in front of you*.
The book you’re currently reading is more important than the others in your Amazon wishlist.
The ideas you’re making right now are more important than the hundred other ones that could be taking up your time.
I’m generalizing here, but hopefully, I’m getting my point across.
It doesn’t matter what we want to do, it only matters what we do. We don’t get brownie points for failing to complete 7 projects. It only counts if we follow through.
That’s why it’s vital for us to find and remove anything that’s distracting us from our mission.
Having many interests and tons of new ideas is great, but don’t let them distract you from what you are currently trying to accomplish.
At the end of our lives, we are remembered for what we do, not for what we wish we would have done. “Here lies Josh, he had a lot of potentials and wished for a lot of things… Alright everybody let’s go grab some lunch!”
Ask yourself: “Does this take me away from my purpose? Is this something I really want to do, or is this just something that would be cool to have done?
All of those ideas we could be doing, all of those experiences we could be having and all of those other things we could be learning can be considered later. But now, we remove all distractions from our view and focus on what’s in front of us.
*unless we don’t like what we are working towards. In that case, we stop, drop, and roll on to something better. (That was a solid A+ Dad Joke if I do say so myself)
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1040
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