People treat you the way you treat yourself.
How you think, talk, emote, dress, eat, and act determines how people respond to you.
When you act like a goob, people are going to treat you like a goob.
What brought this on?
I’ve been thinking about / wonder whether or not people (especially people I️ know) take me seriously. Take me serious about what I️ know, what I’m doing, and what I️ want to accomplish.
These thoughtful questions lead me to an even harder question to answer:
Am I️ taking myself seriously?
Am I️ putting in the belief, time, effort, challenge and blood, sweat, commitment and tears necessary to take my goals seriously?
Am I️ taking this blog seriously? Am I️ taking my writing practice, desire to be a fiction and nonfiction author seriously?
Am I️ taking my songs seriously? Do I️ practice my guitar, vocals, piano and song crafting as seriously as someone who is a professional?
Am I️ taking my business seriously enough? My work, relationships, health (and health problems)?
Am I️ taking my life seriously??! We treat death like a far-off event, but in reality, It could happen to any of us at any moment. If I️ got hit by a bus today, would I️ feel accomplished and satisfied with the life I️ led?
Maybe its just my tween-age angst talking, but I️ don’t think so. I’ve got a lot I️ dream about, and very little precious time to give to make It happen.
When I️ say being serious, I’m not talking about being the kind of person were you suck all the fun out of everything and beat your head against a wall until everything is perfect. (Fun-suckers)
I️ mean taking my mission and dreams seriously.
I mean talking, thinking, and squeezing out everything I️ got to make my dreams happen, despite the fears and challenges that life brings.
If you’re like me, then it’s time to put down the cookies and make a change.
Your dreams — be that building interplanetary rocket ships, winning the Nobel laureate, or simply starting a blog — don’t work if you only give half *ssed work. You have to give all of yourself to make them happen.
Grab a piece of paper and write down a commitment to change. Create a promise to yourself that you will keep pursuing your dreams no matter what. Take what you what most out of this life seriously, and go find a way to make It reality.
Stay BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner
“God will not place a burden on a man’s shoulders knowing that he cannot carry it.” — Muhammad Ali
“Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach.” — Tony Robbins
“If your mom asks you to do the dishes, do not pull out your pirate attitude. But if someone tells you you’re not good enough, says your dreams are too lofty, or claims there is no room in showbiz for a dancing violinist – well then, by all means, pull out your eye patch, my friend, and take to the high seas.” — Lindsey Stirling