Isn’t it funny (ironic, tragic, silly) that often the very thing we need is the thing we won’t give ourselves permission to do. And because we won’t do it, we end up stuck in a place we don’t want to be.
We want it, but don’t think we can have it (or aren’t willing to go after it) because X, Y, Z reason.
We want to (finally) eat healthily and lose weight (or fix a health issue that’s constantly bothering us) but we never actually do it (or quit as soon as we glance at a piece of cake).
Or we have the desire to be an entrepreneur, but we sideline ourselves by convincing ourselves that we don’t know enough yet or we don’t have a good idea yet.
And because we don’t do it, we are dissatisfied and judgment to ourselves, stuck in a loop of wanting something we won’t give ourselves!
Because trying something new or going after a dream is scary and it might not work.
Because it’s easier to play it safe and not get what we want than to do something hard or that might fail.
But honestly, all we are doing is failing and mentally blocking ourselves before we even try.
Ask yourself—what am I convincing myself of that is “impossible” or that I “can’t do”?
If we’re already failures for not trying, then why not try anyway and keep trying?
What do we have to lose?
Failure is a part of learning. It’s painful and messy and uncomfortable, but it can also make us better if we allow ourselves to learn and grow from the experience.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1156