They say the loss of innocence is when you become an adult.
I’ve also considered it as the moment when you realize you aren’t invincible. A few stitches or a broken bone will knock it out of ya real good, but most bounce back to their old enthusiastic, slightly more cautious, selves. (When pain doesn’t go away though, that will do it.)
Another possibility is you become an adult when you start to feel and understanding how quickly time passes.
But being an adult doesn’t mean you can’t be a child. Some of the great minds from history—Einstein, Walt Disney, Richard Feynman—were people you also had a sprinkle of childlike mischief about them.
Just like too little water dehydrates us, and too much water overloads us, being too serious has a detrimental impact on our lives.
It’s wonderful to take things seriously (most people don’t care at all) but if we take things too seriously, we start to lose our magic.
To others, we look stern and too intense. To ourselves, we start burning out. There’s a playful balance between being serious, but leaving room to laugh at ourselves and our experiences.
This childlike playfulness detaches us from difficultly and also gives us room to come up with clever ideas and perspectives. It gives us the humility to see that life is much bigger than ourselves and grounds us to be more capable of handling uphill battles.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1094
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