“To my younger self, I would say unless you’re literally in danger, ask forgiveness instead of asking permission.” — Jonathan Van Ness
You don’t know what you don’t know. That sounds like an obvious statement, but it’s true. Making mistakes from a place of ignorance sucks, but we shouldn’t harass ourselves about it.
There are only three things we can do:
- Learn from it and do better next time.
- Prioritize knowledge and wisdom so that we are more capable, going forward.
- Surround ourselves with wise and thoughtful people who have our backs.
Blaming our younger selves for their dump mistakes doesn’t help us now, nor gets us where we want to go.
Don’t be too critical to your younger self.
You didn’t know what you know now.
He/she didn’t know what he/she was getting into. Even if you’re still paying for it (in dividends) now, you can’t change what happened.
When you criticize yourself, you are just getting in your own way.
Forgiveness starts with forgiving yourself. Give your younger self a get out of jail free card and move forward.
Everyone thinks they are invincible until they fall. That’s when the real journey begins.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1081 ☕️
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