“One way to boost our will power and focus is to manage our distractions instead of letting them manage us.”Daniel Goleman, author and science journalist
How many apps do you have on your phone? How many of them do you actually use? (Sidebar: If you’re interested in specifics, you can look this up in your phone settings.) How many email addresses do you have? What does your desktop or file folders look like? What websites do you check frequently? How many tabs do you have open right now on your computer???
Tabs are my embarrassing weakness. On any given day, I’ve got elevendy-billion tabs open. I love when the browser inevitably buckles under the weight of too many tabs and it finally crashes and I can start fresh. (Ahhhh.)
Digital clutter affects us just as much as physical clutter.
One thing I’ve been thinking quite a lot about lately is how everything has it’s own gravitation force that pulls on us. Some things pull on all of us—like the subtle tug of the closest star, Alpha Centauri A. Or more relevantly, this latest pandemic we’ve all been facing. Other things influence personally—like the people we surround ourselves with, our experiences, and how we spend our time.
The more we think/surround ourselves with someone (or something), the more influence and priority it has on us. Bringing it back to our phones, we’ll more likely open the apps on our home screen more than we would open an app five pages deep.
Digital, physical, mental, emotional, spiritual—everything has a gravitational pull on us.
Which also means, it’s easy to become distracted, now more than ever.
Let’s define distraction as anything that keeps us from our most important things.
If family and fast cars are what’s important to you, like it is for the fast & furious crew, then anything that takes you away from that is distracting you from your greater purpose.
Not only can distractions take our tim, they can also take our energy.
Anything thing you want or wish you would do, or maybe-someday-ought-todo’s are just as mentally distracting as a stack of unread books or dancing gorilla.
The tricky thing is that it’s usually opportunities or interesting shiny things that distract us from our purpose. Great opportunities! …that happen to be in the opposite direction we wanted to go. Distractions can come in little or big sizes.
First, you need to know what you want in life (which is huge). Then the key is asking yourself—
- Is this helping me, or distracting me?
- Am I doing my job as a _________?
- (ex: Am I doing my job as a writer? Am I doing my job as a dog-owner?)
- What distraction can easily remove/get rid of?
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1029