“Positive thinking will let you do everything better than negative thinking will.”Zig Ziglar
Does thinking you are lucky make you lucky?
Does having a bit of bad luck increase your chances of more bad luck?
Probably. If you think you’ve got bad luck, then you’ll be more likely to notice little misfortunes and frustration throughout the day. And the more you notice them, the more you’ll reinforce the idea that your luck is terrible.
The connection point here is thinking. We think something is true, and therefore we believe its true and seek experiences to back it up. In psychology, this is called Attentional Bias “Why, then, ’tis none to you, for there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.“ (Hamlet)
When you think you have bad luck, you blind yourself from seeing the alternatives. Such as just happened to have parked your car under a tree where birds like to poop. Or simply forgetting your umbrella on a rainy day because it wasn’t by the door, instead of thinking the heavens are out to get you.
And it’s not just about luck—all emotions, desires, and thoughts reinforce us one way or another.
Our thoughts become self-fulfilling prophecies. We aren’t our thoughts, but the thoughts we allow in the front door of our mind change and influence us.
As the Buddha once said “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves.” And Marcus Aurelius, “Such as are your habitual thoughts, such also will be the character of your mind; for the soul is dyed by the thoughts.”
Thoughts translate to believes translate to actions translate to reality.
This isn’t one-to-one. There’s magic lost in translation.
Thinking “let there be ice cream!” won’t magically make a cone of ice cream pop into my hand. But it will get me thinking about ice cream. Chocolate… Cookie dough… Pistachio… Ice cream. Ice cream. Ice cream. And suddenly I’ll have an urge to go find some ice cream.
Outcomes are rarely assured. But stacking the deck in your favor (and removing the negative outcomes) makes them more likely.
When a negative/unhelpful thought creeps into your head, replace it with a positive/helpful one instead.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #1017