“It is the loose ends with which men hang themselves.”Zelda Fitzgerald
There’s this concept of loose threads (or loose ends) in film (and muuurder?) where certain details are left unfinished or unresolved. Loose threads could happen in the film’s story (i.e. We have some loose ends we need to cut) or the film itself, where there are storylines that feel unbuttoned and left hanging.
These unresolved/unfinished happen in our own lives too—good and bad.
Let’s start with good threads.
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.”Steve Jobs
A good thread is what I call anything you put out into the world that’s positive, good-natured, or could become an opportunity (for you andor for others). The classic example is good karma. Things like anonymously donating to a charity, leaving a tip for a podcaster you enjoy, helping an old lady change her flat tire, etc. Good threads can also be investments you put out into the world that could bloom. Content, monetary investments, relationships, optimism, ideas, etc.
You never know when something you do or something you create will have a massive impact on your life or the lives of others.
That’s why it’s good to try to always be on our A-game and give one hundred percent with whipped cream on top of everything we say and do.
But what about bad threads?
“I know the sag of the unfinished poem. And I know the release of the poem that is finished.”Mary Oliver
Bad threads are unresolved sentiments live. Todos left undone. Things we said (sometimes even bragged about) but never did. Abandoned or sidetracked dreams. Projects unfinished. There are some bad threads that you can’t pick back up. Bridges burned, reputations tarnished.
Other bad threads are things we leave unfinished and yet still think about often. In Practice you’ve moved on to something else, in mind, you have unfinished business rummaging around in your head that pops up. These can be super harmful because they can zap our energy—in what we are currently doing AND from what we aren’t doing but wish we were. And they add up over the years. One thread unravels to two, then three…
I find it good to take some time to think and list out (if any) threads I’ve left open unresolved. After that, it’s a question of if it’s something I need to finish, something I really want to do or something I should let go of.
What are some projects or ideas left open that I need to resolve?
What are some asks/favors/tasks/opportunities I need to say no to?
What are some things I need to let go of?
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #976
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