“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”Ralph Waldo Emerson
December always puts me in a reflective mood. Blame it on the cozy weather, nostalgic music or the New Year’s hustle and bustle, I’ve been thinking quite a bit recently about the ups and downs of this past year.
Honestly, this year been one of the hardest I’ve been through. I’ve worked a ton this year, but don’t have much to show for it. I spent a lot of time co-running at a start-up, working long hours, underpaid, undervalued and thinking I was an owner but in reality, was anything but. The founder said I had equity, but unfortunately, He was omitting the truth and never actually (intended to) give me ownership. Amor Fati. His loss.
I’ve had good opportunities, but I’ve also been coming into December with financial flubs (mostly from short term problems and emergencies I wasn’t able to resolve immediately) and feelings of bitterness I’m trying to shake off like a bad taste.
There are some great things happening in my life right now, but (why is there a but) honestly I feel a little like the wind has been let out of my sails. Meaning, I don’t feel as confident in myself and my dreams lately. Perhaps I just need to rest more and recover.
Perhaps we all need to rest a little more than we do.
I’m stressed, but I don’t feel stuck. Change meets us right away and adds up each day that passes. Life is to short to get stuck feeling stuck.
New work opportunities. New friends and deep connections with old friends. New confidence.
Here are a few ways we can add more wind to our sails:
Get out of your element:
- Go to different spaces
- Try new activities and hobbies
- Grab a friend and go dancing
Play like a kid:
- Do something you loved to do as a kid
- Go outside and make up an imaginary game to play
- Go do something nourishing for the hell of it.
Sleep and Move MF:
I don’t think we were made to sit and look at a screen all day.
- Make time for making things with your hands
- Make time for nature
- Make time for conversations with friends
Eat as well as you can:
- Eat something more than just pizza and pasta for Josh’s sakes.
- Cook a healthy meal, salmon or lots of veggies
- Try fasting in between all the feasting
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #766