“It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.”Ralph Waldo Emerson
The best relationships happen over time. They are cultivated through connection, camaraderie and shared experience. And they are grown day by day. It’s a wonderful feeling when someone can understand you for who you are, who you’re not and who you want to be.
New friends (especially friends who you feel an instant connection with) are worth every ounce of time and energy you put into cultivating a connection with them. But old friends are priceless.
Old friends keep coming back — no matter how much you change, improve, even regress and no matter how much time in-between has waned. At least the best ones do.
But like all good things in life, relationships have to be nurtured. No matter how long you’ve known somebody, you still have to care.
You have to care.
And so do they.
Care first. Care completely. But if after that they don’t care about what you do, what you dream about and. what you struggle with, then they aren’t worth your time anymore. Unless they decide to learn to care again. But that’s on them, not you. Relationships are a two way street. If you are the only one giving, then in the end, its something you should walk away from.
Life happens. I get it, likely more than most. You reach a certain age and some people you care about move away, other find love, get married and have kids. Other’s start their own company or become a doctor and work themselves into being a busybody. Or perhaps all the above. This makes it more challenging to stay connected. But if you give what you can, when you can, it’s worth it in the end.
When you care, the room lights up. When we all care, the world lights up.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #725