“Simplicity in character, in manners, in style; in all things the supreme excellence is simplicity.”Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
🎶 And be a simple kind of manSimple Man, Gary Rossington / Ron Van Zant, Lynyrd Skynyrd
Oh, be something you love and understand
Follow your heart and nothing else
And you can do this, oh baby, if you try
All that I want for you, my son, is to be satisfied 🎶
What do we truly need in this life? Air, water, nutrition, sleep, movement, and a functioning body, allow us the ability to live. Remove any one of these and we don’t survive for long.
Everything beyond this essential needs is extra. Sure, we can get less polluted air, cleaner water, better nutrition and sleep, optimal movement and body, but these are luxuries. We don’t get to choose where we are born, or what kind of circumstances we are born into. We tend to forget how lucky we’ve got it, in the midst of all the daily wants and desires we all face. (I use the word ‘face’ here intentionally. Not only do we face our own desires and ambitions, we also face the desires of others.)
It’s comforting to remember this on hard, stressful days. It’s particularly when you come home from a stressful work day, or get mentally hurt (on purpose or not) by someone —
You don’t need that job.You don’t have to be friends with people who hurt you or negatively influence you. At the end of the day, you’ll still survive if you decide to let go of something that’s not doing you any favors or lifting you up.
We all want more for our lives, but more is not worth diminishing our character.
Of course, living isn’t the same thing as being ALIVE.
I experience the world through my own eyes and shoes, but I’m certainly not the center of the universe. We are surrounded by other living beings like ourselves, who also want to thrive.
What do we truly need in this life to thrive?
+ A healthy body, mind and spirit.
+ A community of friends and family who mutually what each other to thrive in life.
+ Self-confidence and worth.
+ Humility for what we have (and don’t have).
+ Mind-full thoughts and intent.
+ Love and compassion.
+ Believe in something greater than just ourselves.
+ Purpose behind our steps and challenges to strive for.
+ Desire for wisdom and understanding.
+ Strong moral fiber and code.
+ Balance between satisfaction and pursuit.
+ Strength for the circumstances in front of us.
+ Work that excites our imagination and curiosity.
+ Wealth, time and energy to give to what we love
+ A chance to be bold and put a dent in what we can.
The details will look different for each of us, but our pictures looks similar.
Once we’ve got our bases covered, our goals is not only to cultivate our character to open up ourselves to pursuing a life of meaning. And helping and lift up others to do the same.
‘Thriving’ is a verb. Think of them each like a plant in a garden. To have these things, we must go after them and cultivate them.
STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #711