Finding Renaissance

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”

Mary Oliver, The Summer Day, Pulitzer Prize winning poet.

Life is a series of awakenings and revivals. Sometimes awakenings happen inactively without our input. The loss of innocence for example. The multidisciplinary, Neri Oxman, describes the feeling as ‘discovering innocence at the moment you lose it’. Born in Haifa Israel, for her, it was her experiences in served in the Israeli Armed Forces as a teenager that opened her eye’s to the harsher sides of life.

Awakenings can also happen actively from our own curiosity and discovery too. The moment you think you have things figured out, an idea, a quote, a change, a friend or an influence rocks your foundation of who you are and what you think about the world. For me, health was a big one.

Growing up, I didn’t know a thing about health and wellness. (Neither did my parents.) Being a 90’s baby, I practically lived off fast-food, soda, refined bread and lucky charms. I was constantly catching colds and having sinus problems, but I didn’t know that was not normal. I had no frame of reference to compare my health to. It honestly never occurred to me until much later that food changed how you look and feel. I had no idea how impactful food, exercise and sleep could be on the quality of your life. It was until much later after high school when I read a few books on health and exercise and discovered the impact of health. The crazy thing is I know I’m not the only one who was asleep to the ideas of health. Perhaps this blog post is the first time you are waking up to the importance of health yourself.

A more common word for awakenings we experience is change. Life is continuously changing.

The historical Renaissance (14th – 16th century) was a time of innovation in art and human potential based on the revitalization of Roman and Greek thinking. To put simply: It was an age of discovery, creativity and pursuit. Today, life and technology moves at breakneck speeds. So must we if we are going to take advantage of our brief and precious life. Because life is moving so fast and becoming more connected, things can easily feel overwhelming at times. It’s easy to default to living a life of someone else’s dreams, instead of one you decide on yourself.

Today we face a new renaissance — A personal renaissance. And a renaissance of like-minded individuals like us all seeking a different and more meaningful way to live. We must become more resilient, adaptable and creative to be who we want to be and to do what we want to do. Dreams of a lifetime don’t happen with wishes. We must create them happen.

‘Renaissance’ comes from the combination of the French verb ‘renaitre’ — ‘to revive’ and the noun ‘naissance’.

Your renaissance life is your own, but it begins the moment you decide you want to seek out change and recreate yourself into the best you possible. The more we can learn about ourselves — who we are, what we like, what we stand for — the better we will get at reaching for the ideal. The renaissance life isn’t about perfection, it’s about pursuit. It’s about pursuing intentional changing and being lifelong learner in the skills and characteristics we want to master.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #733


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A Lifelong Journey

“Making the work you want to make means finding nourishment within the work itself.”

David Bayles and Ted Orland, Art & Fear

Great things take time. That’s why if we’ve got to love the process of our work. When you love what you do, then all you have to do is keep challenging yourself and keep pursuing it no matter what. Failure sucks. But stopping because you failed (or stopping because of some random thing in life got in the way) sucks even worse. Because you’re left with feelings of ‘what if’. What if I kept going? What if I never quit? What if we decided to be ‘crazy’ and never stop?

As long as we’re still breathing, we have a chance to start again. Doing something because you loving do is all the validation you need to keep doing it. Everything will try to get in the way of your creativity — most of all yourself. Ever the more reason to resist and do it anyway.

We may not be where we want to be, but that doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy where we are. As long as we keep going strong, we’ll get there when we are ready. Enjoying where we are is tricky, because by its very nature, growing and improving yourself highlights that you’re not at the level you want to be yet. Of course, there’s not really a there there. ‘There’ is just another moment on the continuous path of a lifelong journey.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #732


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The High-road of Pain

“Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom.”

Rumi

Pain is a two-sided story. Pain can close you off and make you focus only on yourself and your struggles. Or, pain can open you up to the pain we all experience and connect you through that shared experience.

Pain is a curse and a gift. It shows you that something is wrong and yet also motivates you to work towards something better.

It’s a sharp blade that allows us to cut to the essence of life. An injury for example. You don’t realize how important your back is until you can’t use it anymore. You don’t realize how much you need an arm or collar bone or knee until you break it.

Pain can either drive us to cope (with food, drinking, risk, etc) or drive us to live fully and deeply. (And unfortunately sometime we end up destroying ourselves to ultimately find ourselves.)

Suffering is an easy choice, but it’s not the only choice.

All this to say, you are not alone in your struggles. Everyone is going through something, we just don’t often see it or know how to handle it.

But if we first learn to look to helping others instead of only helping ourselves, and if we seek out connections of experience, we will inevitably also learn how to help ourselves as well.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #731


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Tiny Matters

“I just happen to like ordinary things. When I paint them, I don’t try to make them extraordinary. I just try to paint them ordinary-ordinary.”

Andy Warhol

“Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.”

William Arthur Ward

The grooves and grains of a wooden table.

Early birds chirping outside my bedroom window.

The smell of freshly made coffee.

There’s joy to be found in the ordinary. We just have to start looking for it. The world moves forward, and so must we. And as you work for your needs race towards your dreams, don’t for getting about the small things. The tiny details of life that make even the most mundane affairs extraordinary.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #730


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Stop Waiting

“However many holy words you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you if you do not act on upon them?”

Buddha

“Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success.”

Pablo Picasso

There’s mean reasons why you should wait on your idea (business, passion, dream, etc). It might not work. You may need more skills and experience to do it. You need to get your money right first. All these reasons are likely true.

But I would argue the reasons you shouldn’t wait far outweigh anything that’s stopping you. What if you go your entire life without doing the things you feel called to do?

It might not work — but who cares? What if it does? What if it doesn’t and it actually leads you to something better than you were originally aiming for? The future is far from assured. Now might be the only time you’ve got.

Skills come from experience. Skills come from doing. In order to create the skills you need to do the things you want to do, you have to first do the things you want to do in order to cultivate the skills you need. That sounds more complicated than it is. All you’ve got to do is just try. Experience and skill will grow as you do.

Money is not an either or option. You don’t have to choose your passion over money — you can choose both. Work on your idea on the side. Go part-time and work on it on the weekend. Take the time you have, and figure out how you can optimally squeeze out more quality in your hours.

Stop waiting.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #729


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Prioritize The Good Stuff

“Action expresses priorities.”

Mahatma Gandhi

Our priorities are not what we want to do. For better or worse, our priorities are what we are doing.

There’s a lot of ways your reality can mismatch your priorities. Perhaps you are prioritizing watching Youtube over honing your skills. Or maybe you are prioritizing pizza over health. It’s less that Youtube and a slice of heaven is bad, per se.

The problem is that we are putting the unessential above the essential, and fleeting moments of happiness over the joy of pursuing what we love and dream of doing.

F that.

Prioritize what you care about. Prioritize what you dream of being. Start living your life the way you idealize. Even if it’s just a little bit.

Do what matters first. Then take a Youtube break second.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #728


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Don’t Stop

“I am not the richest, smartest or most talented person in the world, but I succeed because I keep going and going and going.”

Sylvester Stallone

If it takes 10,000 hours (give or take) of deliberate practice to master something, then why do most of us never reach mastery in the things that we love?

Likely because continuously challenging yourself and pushing your capabilities to the limit day after day, year after year is… well… hard (to put it mildly). But luckily, working on a skill daily doesn’t take the 5+ years first to see results. Each day’s effort builds on the last. Even if it doesn’t feel like it, every time you sit down to write, or practice pitching your idea or work on your art you are building and cultivating change.

The people who tend to go farthest are the ones who keep going.

If you enjoy in a creative or entrepreneurial expression, then why not just keep doing it?

I think two main things prevent us from mastery: Inaction and Inertia.

Inaction

The first thing that trips us up is inaction, or in other words, ‘deer in the creative headlights’ syndrome. Starting is difficult because of all the fear, doubt, limitations and other mental games that drive us to never take a chance, but once we find a way to break through those barriers, going becomes much easier. Momentum is the oil and grease that keeps our tires turning. Not to toot my own tuba, but after 700+ of daily blogging, I feel confident in my ability to write one post every day. Will it be amazing everyday? I doubt it. But each day gives me a chance to improve the quality of my thinking and storytelling abilities. But when you haven’t started yet, writing that many blogs seems overwhelming. That’s why you need to focus on the least common dominator: today’s practice. Pour all your efforts into making something. It doesn’t have to be amazing. It just has to exist. Pen to paper. Fingers to keyboard. Butt in seat. Small adds up. Forget that for now and focus on taking one step towards prioritizes your life the way you want it to look.

Inertia

Inertia is the second category that trips us up. It’s perhaps even more deadly than inaction because it can happen at any moment. You didn’t sleep well so you decide to skip the workout today. Or you sprain your ankle, or injury yourself and have to take some time off to recover. Annnnnd cue never going to the gym again. You have the worst day of your life and you forget to practice the piano. One day off leads to two leads to ten to never.

When we are doing well, everything is moving great. The train is confidently full steam ahead. But one failure, setback, misstep, sick day, lazy impulse and we’re derailed. And if we don’t pick ourselves back up immediately, it’s extremely difficult to pick it back up.

I’ve felt the sting of inertia firsthand. Early this year I went through the TechStars Business Accelerator in Austin. I was maxed out on time and limited on space, so I have to put my podcast the Renaissance Life on hiatus. It was only a couple of months, but it completely derailed me. I’ve been working on it since then, I’ve got a new artwork cover, a few podcast episodes record and currently being edited, but it’s taken me months to pick back up the momentum I lost. It’s okay. It happens. But stopping right now would feel like a failure to me. Instead I’m doubling down on podcasting.

There’s two things I know we can do when dealing with Inertia: reduce the gap, and double down. If you miss a day, then start immediately the following day. If you miss a week, then start immediately the following week. If you fail at something, try something else right away. The more we can reduce the gap, the less momentum we lose. And if you truly enjoy something, until you get back up to speed, double down and commit to it as long as it takes to get back on track.

Failure and setbacks happen. Don’t let that keep you from pursuing your dreams.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #727


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Fuel Your Creativity

“Food is fuel and not a solution to anything other than giving your body nutrients. I love chocolate like the next girl, but it’s not going to change my situation.”

Gabrielle Reece

What do you think of when you hear the word ‘nutrition’? You’re likely thinking of food. Perhaps a plate of overcooked broccoli, or a morning protein smoothie. There’s also another type of nutrients I think quite a lot about, and that’s creative nutrition.

Creative nutrition is the fuel that energizes your work.

What are the micro-nutrients — the vitamins, minerals, water, etc. — that will fuel and grow our creativity?

Or in other words, what are the inputs that increases our skills and output?

Am I only creatively ‘eating’ chocolate and candy? Am I getting the nutrients I need in order to thrive creatively?

Just like our grandmother’s used to say, “Garbage in, garbage out”. Quality in quality out. Life is rarely this black and white, but it does simplify an insightful idea: The more quality of inputs we consume and surround ourselves with, the more likely we will be influenced and changed by those high quality inputs. If ‘we are the sum of the five people we spend the most time with’, then it also makes since that we are also the sum of the inputs we spend the most time on.

Our inputs will be different depending on our craft, but they will have a similar taste to them. If you are pursuing filmmaking, then you watching the classics, watching your favorite directors as well as viewing their work with a directors eye will influence you and spark your own ideas.

But great ideas can come from anywhere, not just in the category of creativity you fall in.

Surround yourself with all types of great work.

Follow your curiosity. Read great books on history, math and anatomy. Watch top rated TED talks and take notes. Find high-quality podcasts with interesting conversations and perspectives.

Ideas spark other ideas, no matter the origin.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #726


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Genuine Relationships

“It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson

The best relationships happen over time. They are cultivated through connection, camaraderie and shared experience. And they are grown day by day. It’s a wonderful feeling when someone can understand you for who you are, who you’re not and who you want to be.

New friends (especially friends who you feel an instant connection with) are worth every ounce of time and energy you put into cultivating a connection with them. But old friends are priceless.

Old friends keep coming back — no matter how much you change, improve, even regress and no matter how much time in-between has waned. At least the best ones do.

But like all good things in life, relationships have to be nurtured. No matter how long you’ve known somebody, you still have to care.

You have to care.

And so do they.

Care first. Care completely. But if after that they don’t care about what you do, what you dream about and. what you struggle with, then they aren’t worth your time anymore. Unless they decide to learn to care again. But that’s on them, not you. Relationships are a two way street. If you are the only one giving, then in the end, its something you should walk away from.

Life happens. I get it, likely more than most. You reach a certain age and some people you care about move away, other find love, get married and have kids. Other’s start their own company or become a doctor and work themselves into being a busybody. Or perhaps all the above. This makes it more challenging to stay connected. But if you give what you can, when you can, it’s worth it in the end.

When you care, the room lights up. When we all care, the world lights up.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #725


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Busybodies

All my friends are busybodies. I’m not sure when it happened. When our society tipped over into always being busy. When our jobs became jam packed. When our days become a rush and our responses go something like “I’m been so busy lately…” “Yeah, I’m good, this weeks been crazy…”. Or maybe this hustle and bustle has always been here and I’m getting old enough to see it. Dang. Or maybe it is being amplified by the internet and social media. Regardless, everyone is a busybody and I am too.

There’s a great quote by Mark Twain that goes, “don’t let schooling interfere with your education.” I think the same kind of mental framework can be applied to our relationships, work and life:

Don’t let the unimportant interfere with the important.

Easier said than lived, but the effort is worth its weight in gold.

There will always be more work to do. There will always be more email in our inboxes. There will always be new and exciting projects ready for our attention.

But there won’t always be more time. Each of us only have a finite amount of time to give and live. That’s why the important needs to come before the unimportant. That’s why love and friendship matter more than power and success.

Is this an either or situation? Do I have to choose between work and friends?
Slow down, family (w0)man. Not necessarily. Life and work is a balance and counterbalance. We shouldn’t spend all our time working and we probably shouldn’t spend all our time hanging out with friends either. (My friends would probably go crazy if they had to spend 100% of their time with me 🙂

Priority is essential, and is often overlooked or unregarded.

Cultivate strong friendships and become a friend of yourself.

STAY BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner | Daily Blog #724


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