What do you do when something isn’t working?
What do you do when you run into a dead end?
What do you do when you don’t know what to do?
Life Principle #21: Let It Go.
Let Go of Holding Yourself Back
More often than not, I️ find that I️ am ultimately the one that holds myself back. Little moments of fear or setbacks slowly keep me back from doing what I️ want to do. A little piece of me thinks that I’m not good enough, I’m not _________ (successful, happy, connected etc ) enough yet, but really that type of thinking is just getting in my way forward. Success, happiness, and friendship is a state of meaning. That’s one reason why the happiest people in the world are in a third world country. They’ve naturally detached themselves from chasing happiness because they already are happy.
We decide what we perspective we want to live in.
You are as ready as you’ll ever be to START your dream right now.
Experience will come through time and practice.
Let Go of Being Cool
Being embarrassed isn’t fun, but also helps you grow into a better you. Vulnerability is relatable.
Let Go of What You Can’t Control
“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius
Let Go of Trying to do Everything at Once
Nothing good ever comes from spreading yourself too thin. I’ve burned myself out before and let me tell you, it’s not a happy place to be in. Burning yourself out is a sure fire way for you to not get anything do, not make a lasting impact, nor have any energy to do what you love to do.
Let Go of Expectations
Expectations is another word for perception. It’s perceiving a future value in the outcome. Put in a different light, it’s like saying, ‘I can’t be happy unless this happens.’
Perhaps the old adage, ‘expect the worst, hope for the best’ is actually wise. Low expectations are not about living based on negative attitude toward life, it’s about fundamentally understanding that anything can happen to us — good or ill — and what really matters if we stay true to who we are.
In essence, high esteem could be believing that no matter what happens, I’m still complete. My life is still worthy and full (worthful?) It’s saying I️ have this vision of what I️ want to look like, and knowing that no matter what happens, If I️ stay true to me, trust those I️ look up to, consistent in my actions and pursue my life with fire and gusto everything will turn out okay in the end. (No matter the setback or failure I️ may face).
Stay BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner
“People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.” — Thich Nhat Hanh
“What’s the greater risk? Letting go of what people think – or letting go of how I feel, what I believe, and who I am?” — Brene Brown
“Abundance is a process of letting go; that which is empty can receive.” — Bryant H. McGill