You don’t realize how quickly time moves until its already passed.
When I was in high school (and middle school) I had a really tight-knit group of friends. We were into making music, movies, jokes, making funny short videos, and being your typical, well-rounded goofballs.
I’ll never forget a video that one of the guys (Jonathan) stitched together from us jamming out and having a helluva good time. He set it to the song, I’ve Got Friends by the Manchester Orchestra. It’s like he intuitively knew our time in high school as a group was about to close, and we would be moving on to college and would never see each other as much as we did, every day, waking up at 6 am and hanging out at and around school.
I don’t remember the details, but I do remember the feeling it gave me, (and gives me every time I play that song)
I miss those moments we had and think about fondly on them.
Life Principle #20: See Change As Good
If you’re not changing, you’re not growing, and if you’re not growing your stuck in place.
Happiness and meaning are fluid — they happen on the journey, not the destination (put that on a poster and smoke it).
Change is good. Its the conduit that takes us from sad times to happy times (and sometimes vice versa). Change can lead to unknown adventures and wild places. It’s hard we were stepping away from something or people we love to follow a calling or jump into a new way of living, but you always have those collective memories. I always have those times with my friends goofing off in my room at my parent’s house (I’m tearing up thinking about it). No one can take that from you. (Another reason why health is vitally important too. A healthy mind is a more capable collector of memories)
I think we fear change for the same reason that we can love change: Because it breaks our status quo and leads to unknown, potentially exciting places.
The best part about change is we can make it. We have the power to change our minds, opinions, the direction in your life and more at ANY MOMENT. Usually, it takes a failure or painful experience to see that, but the power to change is always within our reach. Even small actions can lead to big change eventually.
Often times, you’ll face situations or setbacks you don’t want to be in. This is where change is not only good but can become your best friend. When you’re feeling stuck or have hit rock bottom, burnt yourself, or pulling your hair out because you’re at your wit’s end, it’s time to make some change.
Change starts with you. Be the change you want to see in your life and in the world. Break the status quo.
And when change happens, be good with the new possibilities.
Stay BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner
“Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.” — George Bernard Shaw
“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” — William Arthur Ward
“There is nothing permanent except change.” — Heraclitus