Timing Important Decisions
I'm adopting a new decision policy with potential opportunites.
When opportunities arise, instead of immediately blurt out an answer each time someone pitches me on a project or idea, I'll say something equivalent to:
"This sounds interesting! I have a policy to never make decisions on the spot when it comes to projects like this. Give me 24 hours — same time tomorrow — and I'll reach out with a response. I say this with every opportunity."
Adding a buffer of space gives you time to mediate on whether or not the idea aligns with the life that you want to have / create.
Every decision I've made on the spot has a 'UGH!' moment attached to it afterward. Things I didn't consider. Even with great decisions I can usually think of 3+ things I wish I had clarified instead of assumed (or not even thought about). Maybe you, my reader, are better at making decision on the fly than I am.
Even so, I think it's good to pause and look at all the angles of what saying 'Yes' means.
Opportunities are abundant. But if we say yes to things we don't honestly care about (or care enough about), opportunities can easily become burdens.
Not only does a 24 decision making policy give you time to let the opportunity stew, it also gives you a deadline to decide. In 24 hours, you either have to say Yes, or No.
And if they refuse to give you the 24 hours to decide, then it's a good sign it's probably not a great fit for you in the first place.
Stay BOLD, Keep Pursuing,
— Josh Waggoner
"It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped." — Tony Robbins
"There is no decision that we can make that doesn't come with some sort of balance or sacrifice." — Simon Sinek
"Think 100 times before you take a decision, But once that decision is taken, stand by it as one man." — Muhammad Ali Jinnah