'I Can Do That'
Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “I can do that” when you see greatness on display?
(Write a book? I could totally do that... NFL? Psh move over Manning..)
I’ll make jokes about it sometimes, but other times I’m serious. I desire what they have. I want to be that good at writing, speaking, singing or whatever it may be.
That idea got me thinking.
What’s the difference between someone saying I can do that, versus someone saying it and doing it?
walking the walk
Developing strategies of self-awareness will help guide you down the road you truly want to go, instead of the one you think you want to go.
The first thing we need to do is ask ourselves, "Is this right for me?"
"Is this right for me?"
Is this something I really want and value for myself and those around me? Or is this simply jealousy or flight of fancy?
The second thing to be aware of is compatibility. "Is this right for me right now?"
Does this goal work with my life? Does this goal align with my other goals and the goals of those closest to me?
"Is this right for me right now?"
Once you know you're in it to win it, there are three tips I can think of to push you into action:
- Having some idea of what your getting into
- Knowing where you’ll end up if you stick with it
- Leaping into it immediately.
There’s always going to be a beginner mode (aka suck fest) where you be laughably bad at it. (Whatever *it* is for you)
By getting real with yourself and acknowledging that, you won’t see the flaws when you fail, you’ll see ways you can improve.
And if you know what consistency will lead to — how your life will change if you compared to where you are if you actually do this — you will see the value in taking action. Your mind and what you need to do will be clear.
With a sound perspective on your start and the possibilities of the finish, you are ready.
All that’s left is stepping out into the fear. The longer you wait the harder it will be and the more likely you’ll hold it off indefinitely. Leap.
When you decide to do something, take an immediate step towards your dream.
After that, it’s all about belief. ‘Believe that you can and you’re halfway there.’
No one stumbles upon greatness.
Point me to anyone who has achieved what they desire without having belief in themselves that they could make it happen. No — that they will make it happen.
Believe in yourself josh d 🐞mn it.
“I can do that.” ... I bet there are at least a thousand other people that felt the same way. I have seen their applications. But I went out and did it. Almost everything I have done in the last 4 years was in some way connected to making that a reality. It wasn’t “I can do that now” or “I deserve that today” but that it was within my range. And so I made it happen.